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18-Jul-2016 04:00

So select photos that look good, but could also in some universe be reasonably understood to be you.

Relatedly: Select photos where you can actually see what you look like.

As she wrote on her blog: Comparing the two, one comes to the conclusion that women can't win if they are not interested in certain men.

Under their logic, we are supposed to entertain any man who is interested in conversation or a date just because we exist on a dating site. A) Commiserating with other women (you can't be a woman online and not get creepy messages from men); B) Letting men know what it's like to be a woman online (it's not all cupcakes and rainbows!

Keep your product’s major flaws out of the commercial.

The obvious points of picking photos are to make them (1) flattering, and (2) accurate.

Women get inundated with messages from guys who clearly did not read their profile. You can see the guys' desperation in the messages that I post.

However, that doesn't mean that they have permission to make women feel bad.

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